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Apologies

Which is more sorry? Every phrase placed by crowd weight: heavier type means deeply sorry. Embed this scale3 votes so far. Early days: the weights sharpen as votes come in.

← barely sorrydeeply sorry →

I feel terriblembplease forgive meoopsmy badsorryapologiessorry about thatthat's on meI apologizeI'm sorryI'm so sorryI sincerely apologizeI'll never forgive myselfI messed upmy apologies

Up close

Dots are the crowd's best estimate. Lines show the range it could plausibly be in. When lines overlap, the crowd hasn't settled that pair yet.

  1. 1my apologies
  2. 2I messed up
  3. 3I'll never forgive myself
  4. 4I sincerely apologize
  5. 5I'm so sorry
  6. 6I'm sorry
  7. 7I apologize
  8. 8that's on me
  9. 9sorry about that
  10. 10apologies
  11. 11sorry
  12. 12my bad
  13. 13oops
  14. 14please forgive me
  15. 15mb
  16. 16I feel terrible

Who says what

The same phrase, weighed by different age groups.

How heavy is “oops”?

Its rank in apologies for each age group, drawn at that group's weight.

  1. Under 25Not enough votes yet0 votes
  2. 25–34Not enough votes yet1 votes
  3. 35–44Not enough votes yet1 votes
  4. 45–54Not enough votes yet0 votes
  5. 55+Not enough votes yet0 votes

Context shift

The same two phrases, weighed in different sentences. Context can flip the result.

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After bumping into my cart, the stranger said: "___"
that's on meI apologize
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He showed up an hour late and said: "___"
that's on meI apologize
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After forgetting my birthday, my best friend texted: "___"
that's on meI apologize
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